More Young Men Single and Failing At Life: Are Women To Blame?

It is beautiful where you are at. When I was young (I am 68, female), it was common for women to marry men older than them, and there are many reasons that is good, such as having some money/house to raise children, more mature emotionally, and more experience with life/world/communication. I married someone younger, funny, but he was very curious about the world, and we shared a lot together, but.... I was not very good at relationships..... I used to blame the men, but in reality, looking back, I did not understand myself or life well, I did not know how to communicate my feelings well, I had expectations that got in the way of what is and didn't enjoy a lot of my life because of my expectations and also insecurities. I think that many young people have a lot of these things too, and perhaps it is a process. Some do well with growing together and the discovery and some do not. I will say, learn as much about sex as possible and become the best lover you can, because it really helps when things get tense.... find out what your partner likes, but explore, discover, learn, experiment and have fun.